Offerings
Please note that every client begins working with me as a coaching client. I work with very few clients at a time to ensure depth, flexibility, and personal attention throughout your journey.
Sex & Relationship Coaching: Unpack the Patterns, Build New Skills
For people who want clarity, tools, and support to navigate intimacy differently
What we work on:
- Understanding patterns — Why you keep ending up in the same relational dynamics, what’s driving your fear of intimacy, how trauma shows up in your body
- Troubleshooting sexual difficulties — Making sense of sexual challenges including erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, staying present during sex, and the role of sexual shame
- Building skills — Communication, boundaries, asking for what you need, and building conflict resolution skills
- Expanding identity — Exploring your gender, sexuality, desires beyond what you learned you’re “supposed” to be
- Healing harm — Processing what was done to you, understanding the harm you may have caused, breaking generational cycles
- Navigating alternatives — How to actually practice non-monogamy, kink, or other relationship structures (not just theory)
What a session looks like:
- 90 minutes, one-on-one via video or in-person (Western MA)
- Talk-based, with somatic/embodiment tools when useful (breathwork, grounding, body awareness)
- Weekly to biweekly, depending on your needs and pace
Investment:
- Free 20-Minute Intro Call — Book a brief call to ask questions and see if it makes sense to schedule an exploratory session.
- Exploratory Session (First Session): $250
- Monthly Partnerships:
- Intensive: $1,800/month (4 sessions) | $450/session
- Standard: $1,350/month (3 sessions) | $450/session
- Integration: $950/month (2 sessions, biweekly) | $475/session
Partnerships are month-to-month, giving us both the chance to see if the work is landing and whether we want to continue. Single sessions are available for existing clients on an as-needed basis for $500.
This is for you if:
You’re ready to dig into the hard stuff but need a guide who won’t bullshit you, won’t treat you like a project, and can help you understand the mechanics of what’s happening while also helping you feel your way through it.
Restorative Touch & Cuddling: Rewire What Safety Feels Like
Invitation-only — for established coaching clients ready for deeper embodied work
If you flinch when someone reaches for you; if you’ve never experienced touch that wasn’t loaded with expectation or harm—this work might be for you.
What we work on:
- Learning what healing touch feels like
- Rewiring your nervous system’s response to closeness and connection
- Practicing boundaries, asking for what you need, and saying no without guilt
- Grieving what was taken from you, and reclaiming your body as a place of safety
What a session looks like:
- Clothed cuddling or therapeutic touch
- 90-120 minutes, in-person only (Western MA)
- We talk before, during, and after—this isn’t silent massage, it’s collaborative healing
How to access this work:
You can express interest, but ultimately I offer it when it feels aligned. After working together in coaching, if I sense that touch-based work would serve your healing, I’ll bring it up. We’ll discuss what that might look like, whether it feels aligned for you, and how to proceed.
This ensures that deeper work happens within an established foundation of trust, boundaries, and mutual understanding.
This is for you if:
You know intellectually that touch can be healing, but your body doesn’t believe it yet. You need embodied proof that connection can be safe.
Conscious Connecting: Long-Term Deep Work
Invitation-only — for established coaching clients ready for sustained transformation
This is the deepest option. It’s not just a series of sessions—it’s a partnership. We work together over many months to address the full scope of what you’re healing and where you’re headed.
Think of it as a long-term research project where you’re both the researcher and the subject—we’re investigating the systems that shaped you, testing new approaches, iterating on what works, and building something entirely new.
This is for you if:
- You’re done with piecemeal healing and ready to go all-in
- You want someone in your corner for the long haul—not just a coach, but a witness and guide
- You’re willing to do hard, uncomfortable, slow work and trust the process
- You want integration across multiple modalities: talk, embodied practices, touch work, and consciousness exploration
How it works:
This work emerges from an established coaching relationship. After we’ve built trust and clarity together, if deeper integration work feels aligned, I’ll bring it up. We’ll design a custom approach that fits your needs and adjust as we go.
This is adaptive, responsive work—not a fixed curriculum.
How to access this work:
Like restorative touch, this is something that emerges naturally when the foundation is there. You can express interest, but ultimately I offer it when it feels aligned, and we’ll decide together if it’s the next step.
Ready to start?
Still have questions? Email me at hi[at]letriverhealyou[dot]com and I’ll get back to you.
“The river needs to take the risk of entering the ocean because only then will fear disappear, because that’s where the river will know it’s not about disappearing into the ocean, but of becoming the ocean.”
Gibran Khalil Gibran